When I ask you to listen to me
And you start giving me
advice,
You have not done what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me
And you
begin to tell me why
I shouldn’t feel that way,
You are trampling on my
feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me
And you feel you have to do something
To
solve my problem,
You have failed me,
Strange as that may seem.
Listen!
All I
ask you is listen.
Don’t talk or do—just hear me.
Advice is cheap
And I can do
for myself; I am not helpless.
Maybe discouraged ad faltering,
But not
helpless.
When you do something that I can
And need to do for myself,
You
contribute to my fear and
Inadequacy.
But when you accept as a simple fact
No
matter how irrational,
Then I can stop trying to convince
You and get about
this business
Of understanding what’s behind
This irrational feeling.
And when
that’s clear, the answers are
Obvious and I don’t need advice.
Irrational
feelings make sense when
We understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why
prayer works—
because god is mute,
And he doesn’t give advice or try
To fix
things,
God just listens and lets you work
it out for yourself.
So please
listen, and just hear me.
And if you want to talk, wait a minute
For your turn—and
I will listen to you.
Anon
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