Thursday, March 13, 2014

Poem: Please Just Listen

When I ask you to listen to me

And you start giving me advice, 

You have not done what I asked.

When I ask you to listen to me


And you begin to tell me why

I shouldn’t feel that way, 

You are trampling on my feelings.

When I ask you to listen to me


And you feel you have to do something

To solve my problem, 

You have failed me, 

Strange as that may seem.
Listen! 

All I ask you is listen.

Don’t talk or do—just hear me.

Advice is cheap

And I can do for myself; I am not helpless.


Maybe discouraged ad faltering, 

But not helpless.

When you do something that I can

And need to do for myself, 


You contribute to my fear and
 Inadequacy.

But when you accept as a simple fact

No matter how irrational, 

Then I can stop trying to convince


You and get about this business

Of understanding what’s behind

This irrational feeling.

And when that’s clear, the answers are


Obvious and I don’t need advice.

Irrational feelings make sense when

We understand what’s behind them.

Perhaps that’s why prayer works—

because god is mute, 

And he doesn’t give advice or try
To fix things, 

God just listens and lets you work
 it out for yourself.

So please listen, and just hear me.


And if you want to talk, wait a minute

For your turn—and I will listen to you.
Anon

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