Lying is one of
the oldest vices in the world—it made its debut in the first recorded
conversation in history, in a famous interview in the garden of Eden. Lying is
the sacrifice of honor to create a wrong impression. It is masquerading in
misfit virtues. Truth can stand alone, for it needs no chaperone or escort.
Lies are cowardly, fearsome things that must travel in battalions. They are
like a lot of drunken men, one vainly seeking to support another. Lying is the
partner and accomplice of all the other vices.
The man who is honest merely because
it is “the best policy,” is not really honest, he is only politic. Usually such
a man would forsake his seeming loyalty to truth and would work overtime for
the devil—if he could get better terms.
The tradesman
who lies, cheats, misleads and overcharges and then seeks to square himself
with his anemic conscience by saying, “lying is absolutely necessary to
business,” is as untrue in his statement as he is in his acts. He justifies
himself with the petty defense as the thief who says it is necessary to steal
in order to live. The permanent business prosperity of an individual, a city or
a nation rests finally on commercial integrity alone, despite all that the
cynics may say, or all the exceptions whose temporary success may mislead them.
It is truth alone that lasts.
The politician
who is vacillating, temporizing, shifting, constantly trimming his sails to
catch every puff of wind of popularity, is a trickster who succeeds only until
he is found out. A lie may live for a time, truth for all time. A lie never
lives by its own vitality, it merely continues to exist because it simulates
truth. When it is unmasked, it dies. When each of four newspapers in one city
puts forth the claim that its circulation is larger than all the others
combined, there must be an error somewhere. Where there is untruth there is
always conflict, discrepancy, impossibility. If all the truths of life and
experience from the first second of time, or for any section of eternity, were
brought together, there would be perfect harmony, perfect accord, union and
unity, but if two lies come together, they quarrel and seek to destroy each
other.
The man who votes the same ticket in politics, year after year, without caring for issues, men, or problems, merely voting in a certain way because he always has voted so, is sacrificing loyalty to truth to a weak, mistaken, stubborn attachment to a worn out precedent. Such a man should stay in his cradle all his life—because he spent his early years there.
It is in the
trifles of daily life that truth should be our constant guide and inspiration.
Truth is not a dress-suit, consecrated to special occasions, it is the strong,
well-woven, durable homespun for daily living.
The man who
forgets his promises is untrue. We rarely lose sight of those promises made to
us for our individual benefit; these we regard as checks we always seek to cash
at the earliest moment. “The miser never forgets where he hides his treasure,”
says one of the old philosophers. Let us cultivate that sterling honor that
holds our word so supreme, so sacred, that to forget it would seem a crime, to
deny it would be impossible. The man who says pleasant things and makes
promises which to him are light as air, but to someone else seem the rock upon
which a life’s hope is built is cruelly untrue. He who does not regard his
appointments, carelessly breaking them or ignoring them, is the thoughtless
thief of another’s time. It reveals selfishness, carelessness, and lax business
morals. It is untrue to the simplest justice of life.
Men who split
hairs with their conscience, who mislead others by deft, shrewd phrasing which
may be true in letter yet lying in spirit and designedly uttered to produce a
false impression, are untruthful in the most cowardly way. Such men would cheat
even in solitaire. Like murderers they forgive themselves their crime in
congratulating themselves on the cleverness of their alibi. The parent who
preaches honor to his child and gives false statistics about the child’s age to
the conductor, to save a nickel, is not true.
The man who
keeps his religion in camphor all week and who takes it out only on Sunday, is
not true. He who seeks to get the highest wages for the least possible amount
of service, is not true. The man who has to sing lullabies to his conscience
before he himself can sleep, is not true.The man who has a certain religious
belief and fears to discuss it, lest it may be proved wrong, is not loyal to
his belief, he has but a coward’s faithfulness to his prejudices. If he were a
lover of truth, he would be willing at any moment to surrender his belief for a
higher, better, and truer faith.
The prosperity
that is based on lying, deception, and intrigue, is only temporary—it cannot
last any more than a mushroom can outlive an oak. Like the blind Samson,
struggling in the temple, the individual whose life is based on trickery always
pulls down the supporting columns of his own edifice, and perishes in the
ruins. No matter what price a man may pay for truth, he is getting it at a
bargain. The lying of others can never hurt us long, it always carries with it
our exoneration in the end.
William George Jordan 1902
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